you're asking for it

自讨苦吃───you're asking for it

You're asking for it by coming in late when your father has told you to be early.───你是自找苦吃，你爸爸叫你早点回来，你却晚归。

You're asking for it.───你自找的。

Ati: Maybe, you're asking for it. I like you but…───肯恩：苏菲，你是自找的。我喜欢你，但是…

e. g. You're asking for it by coming in late when your father has told you to be early.───你是自找苦吃，你爸爸叫你早点回来，你却晚归。

Milly, you look like you're asking for it.───米莉，你这么看起来就像在盛情邀请一样。